12 Strange Polish Habits I Can't Give Up
12 strange habits I picked up in Poland! From nature to friendships and seasons - my experience living in this amazing country.
Living in Poland has led to a number of changes in the author's habits and worldview. These changes encompass attitudes towards nature, physical activity, social connections, consumer behavior, and life planning.
Nature and Active Lifestyle
The author notes the increased appreciation for nature integrated into daily life in Poland. Warsaw's parks, such as the Royal Baths (Łazienki Królewskie), are characterized by their large size, meticulous upkeep, and cleanliness. The presence of wild animals, like peacocks and fallow deer, in urban parks, as well as the absence of aggression from these animals towards people, indicates a caring attitude towards nature.
The approach to physical activity has also changed. Unlike the American model, where workouts are often associated with gym visits or specialized classes, Poland, particularly Warsaw and Krakow, has developed infrastructure for cyclists and pedestrians. The author has increasingly used a bicycle and walked, achieving an average of 7-10 thousand steps a day, and sometimes 15 thousand. It is noted that Poles, especially in Warsaw, generally lead healthy lifestyles and maintain their physical fitness.
Social Connections and Communication
There has been a shift in the approach to forming a social circle. The author has become more selective, preferring to invest time and energy in existing relationships rather than actively seeking new acquaintances. This is attributed to both personal changes with age and the specificities of Polish culture, where the depth of existing connections is valued. In Poland, there are three levels of friendship: acquaintances (znajomi), friends (koledzy), and best friends (przyjaciele). It is noted that Poles tend to stick to their own groups and do not always actively engage with strangers at events, which differs from the more open communication in Latin America.
Contrary to popular belief, the author found that Poles do not avoid small talk. When there is a common language and a sufficient level of acquaintance, Poles are willing to engage in conversation, discussing the weather or other neutral topics. Even employees in local shops and restaurants are friendly and recognize regular customers.
The attitude towards the necessity of smiling at strangers has also changed. Unlike American culture, where maintaining apparent friendliness is often the norm, in Poland, people are more direct and do not feel obligated to smile at everyone. The author notes that this allows him not to be constantly "on display" and to have the option not to interact when he doesn't feel like it. However, if one shows politeness and initiates a conversation (for example, with a greeting like "Cześć"), Poles, especially the older generation, can be very friendly.
Consumer Behavior and Life Planning
The author has become more frugal regarding material possessions but more generous towards loved ones. It is noted that Poles, in general, are not prone to excessive materialism and do not attach great importance to brands, unlike some other cultures. The author prefers to acquire things that last and look good, rather than spending money on demonstrating status. At the same time, he has started spending more on experiences and supporting friends, paying for shared outings or trips.
The author's life has become more closely linked to seasonal changes. Having lived in Los Angeles, where the climate is relatively stable, the author experienced a shock from the harsh Polish winter. However, after almost three years of living there, he has learned to plan his life according to the seasons: summer for socializing and activities, autumn for work and summing up, winter for rest and recovery. The author emphasizes the importance of preparing for each season, including proper clothing and maintaining vitamin D levels, to cope with seasonal depression.
Adaptation and Integration
The author has become critical of foreigners who do not make an effort to learn the local language and culture. He notes that a significant portion of expats in Poland live in their "bubbles," not learning Polish, which hinders their integration into society. The author, in contrast, actively studied Polish and reached a B1 level, which significantly improved his experience living in the country. He recommends Polish language teacher Marta for her personalized approach to teaching.
There has been a realization of the value of community, family, and friends. Unlike the more individualistic American culture, where young people leave their parental homes early, in Poland, family ties are strong, and young people often live with their parents longer. The author values close connections with family and friends, finding support in them, especially during the winter months. He has also found his community in co-living buildings and church.
Regional Peculiarities
The author also noted that there are noticeable differences between cities and regions in Poland, which explains mutual jokes and even "rivalry" between residents of different settlements. Warsaw is perceived as more liberal and focused on fashion and status, while other cities, such as Krakow or Bialystok, may be more conservative. Regional cultural peculiarities are due to history and proximity to other countries, which is reflected in the language, traditions, and even the appearance of residents.
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12. Awareness of Nature
The author notes that in Poland, he began to appreciate nature more, observing how it is integrated into urban life, especially in Warsaw. Parks are well-maintained, and wild animals (deer, peacocks) freely inhabit areas alongside people, demonstrating a lack of fear and the locals' care for them.
- In Poland, the author began to appreciate nature more.
- Nature is integrated into everyday life, especially in Warsaw.
- Parks, such as the Royal Baths, are well-maintained and clean.
- Wild animals (deer, peacocks, birds) freely inhabit parks and are not afraid of people.
- The animals' behavior indicates they are cared for in the country.
11. Changing the Approach to Fitness
The author has changed their approach to fitness, moving from traditional gym workouts to a more active lifestyle integrated into daily life. Poland, especially Warsaw, facilitates this with its developed infrastructure for walking, public transport, and cycling.
- The author has changed their approach to training.
- Instead of the gym, they now actively use a bicycle and walk.
- Warsaw and Krakow are cyclist-friendly cities.
- Poland's infrastructure is oriented towards walking, public transport, and cycling.
- The author takes an average of 7-10 thousand steps a day, sometimes up to 15 thousand.
10. Protecting the Social Circle
The author has become more selective about their social circle, preferring to deepen relationships with existing friends rather than expanding it. This is linked to Polish culture, where trust in close ones is valued, and the difficulty of entering established social circles.
- The author has become more selective in choosing friends.
- Prefers to invest time in existing friends rather than making new ones.
- Polish culture is characterized by distrust of strangers and the value of long-standing friendships.
- There are three levels of friendship: znajomi (acquaintances), koledzy (friends), przyjaciele (best friends).
- People in Poland tend to stick to their groups and don't always interact with strangers.
9. The Freedom Not to Smile at Everyone
The author no longer feels the need to smile at everyone, unlike in American culture where it is often perceived as politeness. In Poland, people are more direct, and a smile is often a genuine expression of liking or a reaction to the Polish language.
- The author no longer feels pressured to smile at strangers.
- In America, a smile is often part of maintaining appearances.
- Polish culture is more direct; a smile is often genuine.
- Greeting someone in Polish can change their attitude and elicit a smile.
- Smiling back or maintaining eye contact can be a signal of interest.
8. Understanding Small Talk
Contrary to popular belief, the author discovered that Poles actually enjoy small talk, especially if they know each other and speak Polish. This is evident in everyday situations, such as interactions in elevators or with shop assistants.
- The author found that Poles enjoy small talk.
- This is especially true if people know each other and speak Polish.
- Small talk can occur in elevators, during chance encounters, or with service workers.
- The level of familiarity and Polish language proficiency influence the depth of conversation.
- Local shop assistants (e.g., at Żabka) are often friendly and recognize regular customers.
7. The Habit of Keeping Windows Open
The author has become a more open person, preferring to keep windows open, especially when it's cool outside. This is because many Polish homes do not have air conditioning, and they can get hot in the summer, while in winter, an open window helps to ventilate the room.
- The author has become an "open window person".
- Unlike in the US, air conditioning is rarely used in Poland.
- Summer heat in Poland (28-30°C) feels more intense due to the building's heat-retaining properties.
- In winter, an open window helps ventilate the room, despite the cold.
- The main problem with open windows is insects, especially in the summer.
6. Shopping Like a Local
The author started shopping like a local, preferring specialty stores and farmers' markets over large chain supermarkets. This allows for purchasing higher quality products at reasonable prices and supporting local producers.
- The author started shopping like a local.
- Prefers specialty stores and farmers' markets over large chains.
- One can find quality products (meat, vegetables) at good prices.
- There are specialty stores for different needs (e.g., Asian products).
- The quality of products in local stores is often higher than in chain supermarkets.
5. Enjoying Summer
The author has learned to enjoy summer, unlike his childhood in Los Angeles where summer was associated with work and staying indoors. Now, he actively spends time with friends, travels around Poland, and enjoys the season.
- The author has learned to enjoy summer.
- During childhood in Los Angeles, summer was a time for work and staying indoors.
- For the first two summers in Poland, the author worked a lot on content.
- This summer, he decided to take a break, socialize more, and travel.
- The author visited Gdańsk, Wrocław, Toruń, Krakow, and other cities.
4. Economy and Generosity
The author has become more economical in personal spending but more generous towards friends. He notes that Poles are not inclined towards materialism and brands, unlike Americans. Money is now invested in experiences and helping loved ones, rather than things.
- The author has become more economical but generous to friends.
- Poles are less materialistic and don't care as much about brands.
- The author prefers to spend money on experiences and helping friends, rather than material possessions.
- In Warsaw, more attention is paid to fashion and brands, but the author tries not to overspend.
- The value of experiences and relationships is higher than material goods.
3. Planning Life by Seasons
The author learned to plan his life according to the four seasons, which became a new experience for him after living in Los Angeles. He adapted to Polish winters, learned to prepare for them, and appreciates each season for its unique energy.
- The author plans his life according to the seasons.
- This is the first experience of living in a place with four distinct seasons.
- The first Polish winter was a shock due to its harshness and short daylight hours.
- Now the author prepares for each season, understanding its peculiarities.
- Summer is for socializing and relaxing, autumn is for work and harvesting, winter is for rest and family.
2. Criticism of Other Foreigners
The author has become critical of other foreigners who do not make an effort to learn the Polish language and culture. He believes this is a manifestation of disrespect towards the country of residence and hinders integration, unlike those who actively learn the language.
- The author has begun to criticize other foreigners for their unwillingness to learn the language and culture.
- He believes that immigrants should make efforts to integrate.
- The majority of foreigners in Poland (about 90%) do not learn Polish.
- Not knowing the language creates "bubbles" (Russian-speaking, Indian communities, etc.).
- Knowing Polish кардинально changes the experience of staying in the country and integration.
1. The Value of Community, Family, and Friends
The author has come to value community, family, and friends more than before. He notes that in Polish culture, people care for their loved ones, which contrasts with the more superficial relationships he observed in Los Angeles.
- The author has come to value community, family, and friends more.
- Polish culture is oriented towards caring for loved ones and the country.
- The author appreciates co-living for the sense of community it provides.
- Strong family ties and frequent contact with relatives are an important feature of Polish culture.
- Having support from loved ones is especially important during the winter period.
Bonus: Understanding Urban Rivalries
The author understood why Poles from different cities treat each other with a degree of criticism. He attributes this to cultural differences between cities, such as Warsaw (liberal, status-oriented) and more conservative regions, as well as the historical influence of neighboring countries.
- The author understood the reasons for urban rivalries in Poland.
- Warsaw is perceived as liberal but arrogant and status-oriented.
- Residents of small towns can be too conservative and not open to change.
- There are cultural differences between regions (e.g., Warsaw, Krakow, Poznan, Gdansk).
- Historical influence of neighboring countries (Germany, Ukraine) shapes the cultural characteristics of regions.
